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Simple Gestures
The Christmas period is in full swing as we head into the last week of term.
As I put another generous donation under the Christmas tree in the Sixth Form common room, it made me proud to be part of the Valley Park Community, whose families have contributed & supported the Salvation Army Food Bank Appeal this year. It creates an even greater connection when knowing that times are tough for all at present. It made me reflect on my Christmas and what this festive period means to so many.
I find myself listening to conversations on who’s got their Christmas tree up first, I find myself listening to who has all the gifts brought and wrapped. I also hear of who has the best light displays on the front of their house. However, we do need to be mindful as a community that there are some not looking forward to Christmas for a number of reasons. This year has been particularly tough in so many ways however I'm sure you would agree that the financial climate we find ourselves in is more challenging than ever and families everywhere are feeling the financial burden.
Most of us are very lucky to have our family gatherings and have the help and support of loved ones throughout the year. I remember when I was a child, I was very eager to put out the mince pies and carrot for that magical visit from Father Christmas. I remember Mum telling me to not forget the Baileys as that is what Santa had requested!
My thoughts were channelled on the presents I was going to receive: 'Did he actually get my letter?' 'Did he know what I meant by the description of ‘Tenderheart’ Care Bear and not ‘Grumpy Care Bear’?' 'Had I been good enough?' My energies were so focused on the gifts I'd asked for, the essence of what really mattered passed me by.
My parents have made the best nostalgic memories for me and something I will treasure forever. As I have become older (maybe not wiser!) you realise that you don’t remember the gifts. I couldn’t tell you if I ever received my Care Bear however I knew Santa had been, as I remember the footprints. I remember that feeling of excitement in the pit of my belly, I remember the hugs and kisses I received from loved ones, I remember the aroma of the roast turkey cooking in the oven and I definitely remember my sister and I peeling the vegetables ready for the arrival of the family guests (which was my mother’s way of getting us to contribute to the day!)
So, knowing that are some of us in our community may not be able to afford the best Care Bears, let's help them create the memories of the fun, laughter, food and magic of Christmas. It may simply be a gesture of dropping a good home-cooked meal around, or it might be an invitation to visit over the festive period. It might be some left over wrapping paper you can share with someone. Whatever the gesture, I hope that we stay strong as a community and ensure everyone makes memories to last a lifetime.
Wishing you all a Merry Christmas and one that you will treasure for all the right reasons.
If you would like to donate to The Salvation Army Food bank appeal then please drop off at reception and we will ensure your contributions will help those in our community.
